STOP CHASING

We chase those people who don’t need us. This is the fact, but most of us think that keep on chasing to those whom you want, as, at the verge of the day you will certainly get him or her. Most of us have seen and encountered that we are always obsessed and get enticed to someone who is not so romantic or contrary to you. Knowing that this feeling is not mutual and we start living in the fairytale world and keep ourself happy from inside so that you may convince yourself and have that hope. We human’s most of the time don’t admit our feelings and emotions because for the suspicion of denial and leaving you in the great physical and mental pain.

Let’s comprehend this in some psychological door where this might be applied or you have seen or encountered in your life. Whenever we know this fact that he or she is not inquisitive or not feeling the same way as you do then we have three scenarios to resolve this tension:

• Be Optimistic: Calm down, listen to your mind as this will give you the resolution instead of emotional strings. Decide and realise that he/she don’t think the same way as you feel and move on from him or her
• Attain planned action: Choose your goal and swing in one direction without even looking back, as this will make you more stronger and will lead you towards your goal
• Don’t let the situation bother you: Take it lightly and be relax as every relationship won’t work

Most of us choose the second option as this really enables you to mould your future. It’s ok to be self-reliant not just with the theory of free bird but work is something which keeps us away from our personal mental anxiety. We human certainly have the solution for every dilemma. We focus on work so that we may feel light from our personal life scepticism and we spend time with our family so that we may be stress out from our office situations.

Misunderstanding. Hope every one of us has heard this word commonly. But let me elaborate it again, it is a fail exercise to understand anything correctly. This generally happens when the two people psyche, opinion and perception collide. Now one of us in every relationship is the person who always try to chase behind the other person. The reason can be losing that person or maybe that person will get someone better than you or there can be multiple reasons. This will sound like karma types but “what we do in our life we get in return the same thing”. Let the person run away from you, the more you will be out from his or her memory you will feel alive and if you will continuously think about the same person then time, situation and your mental health will be constant. No one knows the future but when life surprises you from whatever you have suffered then you will feel the importance of the time when you were alone, low and hardly there was someone who was listening to you.

The moral of this blog is just to send this message to people, that stop chasing for anything in your life. This is not about only the materialistic things but your mind and soul really need to stop chasing for a person, relationship, money, love as you can fill your water bottle of the life with the specified amount of liquid as an excess of the liquid will spill the surrounding and will only create chaos in your mind. Start living your ironic life and live, wait and watch what destiny have for you !!!